Meeting fellow travellers #4: Kelly

So this edition (edition? Feels weird to call it that. Anywho) is a little bit different. I didn’t meet Kelly on my travels. We’ve known each other since we were teenagers, up in the land of Sheffield. Her house was directly behind mine and as I was mates with her sister, our paths crossed a lot. It just so happens that she’s got major wanderlust, so much so that she’s off to travel the world next year.

Say hello to Kelly….

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Who is Kelly?
I’m an accountant from Sheffield who loves to escape the place but always comes home to my family. I love travelling, trying new things, being wonderstruck by people and places all over the Earth and currently, trapeze. I get passionate about things for a while then when I’ve got so far I need something else to captivate me.

What was your ‘aha’ moment? (i.e. the moment you decided you wanted to hit the road)
I was 25 and I’d just bought a house with my long-term boyfriend. It was stunning, 4 beds, 4 loos, all the trimmings. I spent the first 4 months putting my stamp on it before I decided it wasn’t what I wanted. This probably harps back to my staying power with hobbies.

Heartbreakingly I left my seemingly “perfect” life and moved back home with my parents. Back in my box room I felt more free than I had in a long time. It was then I decided I wanted to feel even more freedom. So I booked a flight to Thailand, alone. My first solo trip ever.

Where’ve you been so far?
I started off in Thailand, Laos, Vietnam and Cambodia. I enjoy going to places that will challenge and develop me both in terms of language barriers and cultural differences. I’ve since done Northern Italy (Milan, Verona, Lake Garda, Venice), Holland, Moscow and road-tripped across America (San Francisco to Miami via the Deep South).

What’s the single best thing about travelling?
Not having anywhere to be, just taking life as it comes.

And what’s the single worst thing about travelling?
Jet lag and general tiredness when you try to fit too much in to a small amount of time. It can make you grumpy and irrational and ruin the experience of being somewhere if you’re not careful.

Where are you planning to go next?
September 2015 I’m starting a 2 year around the world trip but still trying to decide where to start. At the minute I’m thinking St Petersburg, Russia, then take the Tran Siberian train across the country, stopping in Vladivostok then crossing over in to China.

What are your top 3 tips/advice for anyone considering backpacking?

  1. Enjoy every minute. Try to remain positive even when you lose your passport, miss your bus, get caught in a 1am thunderstorm with your backpack on and have to walk 3 miles to your hostel. It’s all part of the adventure and beats whatever monotonous activities your mates are getting up to back home HANDS DOWN.
  2. Talk to people. A lot of the time people are in the same boat, wanting meet new people too but are afraid to strike up conversation first. Just take a deep breath and go straight in there. If they’re cool, great, you’ve got a new friend to try out new places with. If they’re not, quite simply try another.
  3. Keep a diary – on paper, on a blog, a video diary, by whichever means. I started doing it because I have a terrible memory. But the more you see and do the more easy it is to forget the small things that were pretty mesmerizing at the time. It’s heartening to read through and remember how certain sights, smells and people made you feel. I also love my personal videos, they really capture the exhilaration I felt at the time.

Aw. Big thanks to Kelly. And I am not at all jealous about her world trip.

Not at all.

(Lies)

Pack like a pro!

IMG_2248Most people who know me will probably fall about laughing that I’m about to give advice on packing. I am a typical girl – I always take way, way more than I need. Always. And with Goa coming up in less than 7 weeks time (yay) my thoughts are turning to the things I need to buy beforehand. When I went to France last year, I took a suitcase. A humungous one. Never again. It was an absolute nightmare lugging it around and I used about a quarter of what I took. When it came to India, I took half of what I took to France and it was STILL too much. This time, I will do much better!

So, here are my tips on packing. Tips I shall refer to myself in a few weeks:

Get a decent bag
If you’re travelling, a backpack has to be the way to go. It’s so much easier having to move around with one than a suitcase. So, get a decent one. It will be your world for the duration of your travelling life. I was a bit unprepared for the cost – a decent one will set you back at least £100. I got mine over the Christmas break in the sales and it was £99. Do some research online and set aside a good amount of time to go around and try some on. Don’t just borrow one from someone else (without trying it at least). You want something that’ll fit your body correctly. I got an Osprey Talon 44L. Looks tiny but holds a lot. Excuse the dodgy pic.

Size matters
The natural inclination will be to get a big one. It makes sense, right? You’re going to be travelling for months, maybe country hopping, who knows what climate you might be in? Or what you’ll be doing? You need to be PREPARED.

Wait a second.

That was me telling you to have a massive word with yourself. Unless you’re going to be going from tropical to subzero in the same trip, you can assume you won’t need clothes for all seasons. We all see people travelling around with a bag the size of a house on their backs, but you don’t need to be one of them. You WILL be encouraged to buy a big bag when you’re shopping – they cost more. The guy who served me tried to get me to get a 65L bag. No way, Jose. You’re the one who’ll have to carry it, and believe me, having a big bag just means you’ll have a tendency to fill it. Do yourself a favour and get a smaller one. Your body will thank you for it.

Rock and roll
Roll your clothes. Rolling vs folding is not even an argument. Rolling saves space and reduces creasing. Plus, you can squidge stuff down into the sides. Unbuckle all the straps on your backpack, pull all the strings, get as much space as you can. And then, when it’s packed, pull them all back in.

Separate
Separate your stuff. I did this on the way out. Trousers in one plastic bag, tops in another, undies in a third (by the way, having plastic bags come in very handy. Just don’t go overboard and kill the planet). The advantage to this was, it was easy to find things. The disadvantage was it took up more space and started to get annoying. It depends on your preference.

On separation, it’s a good idea to take some bare minimum stuff in your hand luggage. Bags get lost, even though we don’t want them to. This happened to me on the return from Kuala Lumpur. Have your charger, toothbrush, a spare top and maybe some undies, just in case.

Pack light
Try to take enough clothes to last you a week. Sounds unlikely I know, but you’ll end up wearing the same things anyway and you will want to buy things to bring back. One of the things I didn’t factor in was that I wanted to blend in with everyone else. The clothes I’d bought were perfectly travel suited, but I felt like a unicorn most of the time. Get to a market stall and buy a few things when you get there. Oh, and don’t pack anything you care about. Your favourite top/trousers? Don’t bother. It’ll more than likely get ruined/stained/faded/lost. On the subject of clothes, here’s a few tips:

  • Leggings. Absolute godsends. They double up as skinny jeans (kinda) if you want to dress up, as PJ’s, or just for lounging around in.
  • Shoes. Leave your heels at home. Get a pair of flip flops and a pair of shoes/boots you can travel around in. For me, this is Converse or Vans, something inexpensive that I don’t mind getting ruined. Think about the long walks, journeys on dirty trains etc. That said, I have just bought a beautiful pair of entirely practical desert boots that I’m taking with me this time round.

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  • It’s far better to layer up than take a massive coat (depends on your destination of course). I got a decent North Face waterproof but I never wore it. This time, I’ll take a little denim jacket and a couple of cardigans. Not only can they layer me up, but they can change an outfit individually. Ace.
  • Scarves. Cannot praise these enough. They can be used to mark your bag at the airport, cover your hair/shoulders if you need to, wear as a sarong, over your leggings if you’re like me and you don’t like to have your bum out, or as a beach towel. They’re pretty inexpensive abroad too.

Essentials
Last year (or, technically, this year since it was January), I took everything I could ever possibly need when it came to essentials. Shampoo, conditioner, shower gel, tampons, etc etc etc. Here’s some advice. Unless you’re going somewhere completely inhabitable, you’ll be able to buy stuff there, and it’ll probably be cheaper too. It might not be the exact brand you use at home, but you’ll find something. Of course, if you have some kind of skin condition or something that requires you to use special soaps etc that’s different, but most of us can get by with anything. So, I’d say:

  • Use soap instead of shower gels. They’re cheaper, last longer, take less space and can also be used to wash clothes if needed
  • If you’re going to need sanitary products, take enough to last you for a few months. This depends on what you use, but finding tampons was an absolute nightmare for me. I was lucky my friend came to visit with a care package. Alternatively, try a mooncup. The concept might make you feel a bit icky but it’s tiny and you’ll never need to buy a sanitary product ever again. The downside is it can be tricky if you’re somewhere that doesn’t have clean water
  • Most of us (me excluded) use body cream, face cream, hand cream, night cream – blah blah blah. This advice depends on where you’re going, but I found that buying a litre of coconut oil was the way forward. It’s completely natural, ridiculously cheap and lasted forever. And, it smelled beaut too.
  • I wouldn’t skip on them if I were you. Buy a multipack before you leave and enjoy yourself to your hearts content.
  • Malaria pills, check. Probiotics, check. Vitamins, check. Paracetomol, check. Antihistamines, check. You don’t need a whole medicine cabinet, but some of this stuff will be hard to find, or the average dosage might not agree with you, so take a small amount with you.
  • Make up. If you’re going somewhere hot, I wouldn’t bother, especially when it comes to foundation etc. Try going au naturel, or, if you really, really can’t, limit it to lip gloss, mascara and eyeliner. The sun will do your skin wonders anyway, trust me, you won’t need a face full of slap.
  • Hairdryer/Straighteners. Again, I’d say au naturel is the way forward. That said, not everyone has manageable hair. If it’s a necessity then take them. If it’s just something that you’ve got used to doing out of habit, leave them behind. They’ll take up valuable room in your backpack. See my advice about skincare for hair care if you have afro hair. Natural oil will work way better than a heap of product.

Common sense/practical stuff

  • Locks. I took about five. Wholly unnecessary. Most backpacks can’t be padlocked and even if they could, they could be slashed open. If you really feel you need to lock it up, try using cable ties. They’re super secure, barely noticeable and cheap. That said, do get a good, heavy duty padlock for your room door, and if you can, get a chain too. Comes in handy for long journeys etc.
  • You will want to freshen up on/after the plane, or on long journeys, or if the water supply cuts out and you can’t have a shower. So, get a pack of wet-wipes. By the hundred, if you can. It will take a bit of space but man alive, they are life-savers. You can use them to clean yourself in lieu of a shower, disinfect surfaces/items and they’re much better than antibacterial hand gel.
  • Gaffer tape. This is probably the single-most best thing I took. A tiny roll has lasted to this day and I used it a lot – taping the rip at the top of my backpack (thanks Mumbai airport), taping holes in the mosquito net, using it to attach the strings of my net to the wall when there was no way else to erect it. Brilliant stuff.
  • Water filter bottle. It does cost a bit, but mine came in really handy for long journeys. Water is so cheap over there but it’s nice to have a bottle you can fill from a tap and drink, knowing it’ll be safe. It also keeps the water cool.
  • Washing line/sink blocker. I took these with me, but I don’t know if I will again. The washing line is handy, but I was lucky I lived in a house that had some strung up already. I also used it to string my mozzie net up. As for the sink blocker, I found that using a bucket was much better for washing clothes in, and it served as an alternative way to wash when I really had to.
  • Money belt. I didn’t take one of these. Personally, I think they draw more attention to yourself, but it depends on your temperament. Spread your money out if you have to travel with a bulk of it, or, do what I did and get yourself a currency card. That way, you only ever need to take out the money you need and if you lose it or it’s stolen, you haven’t lost all your money in one go.

Think that’s it. Have I missed anything? Sharing is caring!

Meeting fellow travellers #2: Adoki

A while back, I did a post with the intention to get someone in the big, wide world inspired to go travel. I introduced Michael Margolies, an American travelling the world and sharing his adventures via a podcast, Walking The Earth. Well, it’s that time again.

This time, I’m introducing Adoki, a super cool guy I met, also in Chiang Mai. Right from the off, it was all about awesome coincidences. He’s also from London and it turned out I’d met a friend of his in Bundi, Rajahstan a week or so earlier, and to add to that, we also share the same birthday! So, I thought it’d be cool to get him on the blog for a Q & A.

Who is Adoki?

Who am I?
Maybe the most important and most difficult question. I’m currently in the process of becoming a philosophy teacher and am loving teaching extra large mind expanding concepts to little adults. I’m a believer of the Holy Trinity, Science-Spirituality-Philosophy, and feel within these holds a key to something beyond comprehension.
I love to see new things; to experience goose bumped infused moments that remind me about how finite and important life (I & U) is (are).

I have few passions but seek to fill my life with them as much as possible. Music. Food. Travelling ( being one of the reasons I fell into the education profession as it fills in two important criteria; meaning and holidays to find meaning). Once I was told that my totem animal was a bear. I like bears. Winnie The Pooh Is a Taoist Philosopher.

I mathematically believe in the high probability of alien life form and my favorite food is Plantain (cooking banana). (√∞=♥)

Tell me a bit about your music and what inspires you
I love many genres and all inspire. Jazz, dub, minimal tech, classical. But, I feel my inspiration comes from electronic music and sounds in general (unorganised sounds). Just thinking about it, I feel this could stem from the dichotomy, or illusion of separation, of the two. Sounds are spontaneous, uncoordinated; one minute you hear a bird chirp, the next a plate crash. They could be said to harbour a life of their own. Adding to that, I feel if we disassociate from the cause of some sounds and hear it as an abstract entity floating on its own, it takes on another meaning (try listening to the sound the tyres of a moving car make of the road – very relaxing). On the flip side of that, there’s electronic music. Synths, pads, drum loops, midi key boards; all of these not only incorporate the fact that humans are able to evolve technologically at an amazing rate, but for me encapsulates that thing, that ‘je ne sais quoi‘, that soul. Search and listen to ∆ZTEK – Feelin.

What was your ‘aha’ moment? (i.e. the moment you decided you wanted to hit the road)
Working in a Cuban bar at the age of 20 and meeting and working with people from all over the globe. Seeing them see London from a point of view I had become accustomed to was so refreshing. Not only did it make me want to enjoy the city of my birth more, but it also made me realise that there was a whole world waiting and wanting to be seen.

Where’ve you been so far?
Australia (Melbourne, Perth), Holland (Amsterdam), Mexico (Mexico city, Tulum, Guadalajara), USA ( Los Angeles), Spain (Melila, Madrid, Valencia, Almeria, Granada), Morroco, Singapore, Malaysia, Thailand, Hong Kong and Italy (Rome and Sorrento).

What’s the single best thing about travelling?
Fear. Awkwardness.  Being alone yet with so many others. The food, sound, smells, textures, unfamiliarity. A deep inexpiable connection with humanity/reality. To see a manifestation of the divine that has never been described in any Holy Book. 

And what’s the single worst thing about travelling?
The actual traveling part can be tedious. Living out of a bag and knowing the futility of unpacking because soon you will be on the road again. I hate that shit.

Where are you planning to go next?
I feel I need to reconnect to the Mother Land. As being from African decent, I feel it definitely needs to be explored at greater depth. So much negativity is heard in the media I feel I want to see all aspects of Africa, not just what’s fed to me on the news and adverts for aid.

What are your top 3 tips/advice for anyone considering backpacking?

  1. Be brave. Let your fear and anxiety be the catalyst, metamorphosing you to the true you.
  2. Be water. Flow, don’t be solid. Adapt.
  3. Be vigilant. All kinds of people exist in the world. Learn to filter the negatives.

Big thanks to Adoki for featuring on the blog. Adoki, I have your water canteen. I’ll bring it to you soon!

You can connect with Adoki and check out his music here:

Facebook – Adoki The Anomaly | YouTube |  SoundCloud | Bandcamp

Why travel should be mandatory

If I were president of the world, there are three things I’d do:

1. Every single person on the planet would have access to safe drinking water. Non-negotiable

2. Every single person would be taught how to read and write. Non-negotiable.

3. Travel would be mandatory.

Think about it. You get to meet a whole heap of people, you get to see different cultures, you LEARN. I’ve never met anyone who’s ever said travelling abroad or even in their home country was the biggest mistake they ever made. Sure, it might not always be easy, but it’s such a positive thing. Much more so than, say, national service.

I re-watched a beautiful documentary film at the weekend – this should also be mandatory viewing. After the first time I watched it, I went straight to Wikipedia and looked up the list of filming locations. It inspires me to want to see more of the world and opened my eyes to a lot of things that I never think about. It cleverly shows the parallel between rich and poor, the ‘West’ and the rest, the insane amount of food we consume, the irony of living in boxes and dying in them, as opposed to living in, say, the open country. Both films are definitely the type to make you think and re-evaluate, and I watch them when I need a reality check, as well as injecting with the urge to book a flight somewhere.

There are no words, just beautiful images from around the world, accompanied by music. It won’t be for everyone, but both Baraka and the sequel Samsara are just to beautiful not to share.

Why travel plans never work

So, I’ve been back now for a week and I’m so very badly missing my holiday! I visited Spain for the first time and caught up with an old friend, as well as my friend who I met in Thailand who is now in Indonesia (jealous? me?). Then, I headed to France for Uzes and Montpellier…just, wow. I knew after last year that I could live there, but this time…as soon as I headed towards Uzes, I had a huge sense of calm. It seems my heart has found a home. Pictures and more detailed posts to come.

Anyway. Enough mushy stuff. As the title suggests, not very much of my trip went to plan – it was just another reminder to me that trying to control what happens in life is a complete and utter waste of time. Luckily, for me, the changes were all good. In a nutshell:

  • It turned out that getting to Madrid airport in the dead hours of the morning from Alcala de Henares was more than a bit tricky (note to self, check transfers to the airport are possible outside normal hours next time). It was no biggy, though. There was a train from Madrid to Nimes that took 6 hours – and as we know, I love trains.
  • Except, we didn’t factor in the waiting time to buy a ticket at Madrid Atocha station. As we were waiting in the seemingly never moving queue, my train left without me. Another note to self, ask if there’s a counter for international tickets. Because there was. And I could have caught the train if we’d have known. Oh well. In the end, it meant an impromptu flying visit to Barcelona, somewhere I’ve always wanted to visit.
  • Except, I didn’t stay very long. I literally found a bed to sleep in and had to be up for a 7.20am train. I eventually arrived in Nimes at 11am on Saturday and headed straight to the Market in Uzes to catch up with friends. It quickly became apparent that two days there simply wouldn’t be enough, so…
  • I extended my trip by four days. This was a combination of helping out my host and also because I got a little sick (as much as I love trains, I hate the air con – always makes me ill).

Were all these changes costly? Yes. Massively so. But then again, I had a blast. Because I stayed on in Uzes, I got to take part in the full moon party with my musician friends, my host and her lovely friends, and the other volunteer staying there too. I also got to hang out in Montpellier a bit, somewhere I’d been intrigued about for ages. And, more importantly, I got my itchy feet back.

Central America is no more. I really want to go but the flights are horrifically expensive and the time away would be too short. In fact, it looks like I’ll be heading back to Goa to do the Shiatsu course I was interested in for 3 months. The moral of the story is? Go with the flow. Having a packed itinerary is just silly and in the end, much more restrictive.

Which means I have a tight budget and schedule to work to up until it starts in December. And, this includes editing and releasing Heart Shaped Bruise.

Deja vu, anyone?

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